KIDS AND WORKING MOTHERS # LISTENING TO CHILD

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Famous author CINDY CASHMAN said,

When you talk to your child, mostly listen.

The child and mother share an unbreakable bond. He depends on his parents especially his mother, emotionally throughout his life. I must say that it is in the hands of the mother to make this bond stronger day by day. 

The easiest way is that your child must expose his heart to you. And this can only be done when he talks and you listen. 

Start listening to your child from a young age. His small talks are mesmerizing. The words he uses at this age remain in the heart of the mother throughout her life. 

When schooling starts your child experiences new things. Listen to your child what he tells about his class, teachers, friends, bus, etc. Remember the name of his friends. Ask about them frequently. Listen to them also when they visit you. Cherish their talks.

The more you listen, the more he will tell. Listen to his successes and failures, Laugh on his jokes. Console when he cries. Soothe him when he is jealous.
Your child should consider you his best friend especially when he is a teenager. Because this is the age of hormonal changes. Lot is going on in a child's mind. But your presence in this life relieves his pressure of hormonal imbalance.
Once the child becomes adult he will definitely remember how his mother used to listen to him. Then no doubt he will consider this time as one of the best times of his life.